發(fā)布時間:2022-07-23 21:25:23來源：魔方格
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文,不禁浮現出一個美麗的情境,賦予優(yōu)美的語境和豐富的情感;美文,不禁聯想到一種美幻的意境,充滿情感的體驗和豐富的表達。美文,大概就是美的化身,它是一種情感,一種體驗和一種表達。
Love of Self
When I was younger, I thought that to love one"s self was vanity and not a virtuous trait. As I have grown old, that belief has passed away, as have so many others. There is a vast deviation between being vain and loving one"s self.
We are all in this world together striving for more or less the same things. To contribute and have our lives count for some thing. to love and be loved, To laugh and yes, to cry.
We seek shelter, nourishment, a mate, warmth, clothing, family, friends; we seek approval, love and self-esteem. We are all imperfect. Often during our search we forget to simply enjoy what life is. We become so caught up in what could have been, what should be, what might be, that many of our todays are lost. let yesterday rest, live for today, hope and dream for your tomorrows
If there is some part of you that lessens your self-image, some part of you that prevents you from loving yourself, change it for only you can. Life is filled with things we have no control over, but ourselves, we can control. You are the clay, you are the sculptor and you have the ability to create a masterpiece. The shape and form are there. You have only to refine the work.
Is the task an easy one? No. There will be slips and flaws and you will be required to work and rework just as the sculptor must rework the clay before the piece is completed. Should the sculptor through out the piece condemning it as worthless because of a blemish or nick? Of course not, where then would all the world"s treasures art be? I doubt we would have any. How many masterpieces do you think have been created in one fell swoop, a first effort compeletely successful without error, without change? Is it possible we fail to see that mankind is the most marvelous of all works of art? A living, continuous developing work of art.
How often have you heard the question” What is the human race coming to?” The answer, in my mind at least, is whatever we make it, for we are the weavers of tomorrow. You are a treasure, beyond price, one of a kind, irreplaceable. Not perfect but well on your way to being a masterpiece. Do not let your yesterdays hinder tomorrow"s achievements.
Again I said to you that these words are merely feelings and thoughts, one person"s outlook and subject to change with tomorrows setting sun, as I too continue to sculpt the lump of clay given to me at birth, called self.
Five Ways to Buff Up Your Love Ones
(讓愛人心情愉快的五個方法)
1.Acknowledge the big and the little things.
People want to be seen. They want their actions, attitudes, feelings, aspirations, etc. to be noticed and acknowledged. Become a person who notices.
2.Give thanks and appreciation.
Thank somebody for something and they are more likely to do the same thing again or to do something else you can thank them for. Why? Because being thanked feels good. Tell them you appreciate it too.
3.Give just to show appreciation for who they are.
Make a list of what you admire about your partner or another person. Now tell them you don"t have to wait for a special occasion. Surprise that special person any time.
4.Take an active interest.
Take a real interest in the things important to your special someone. Listen to him or her and have a conversation about their hobbies, career etc. Learn something new about the topic. It will make them feel understood.
5.Do special things just for them.
Find out what that special person likes. Do they like cards, flowers, foot rubs, special books,or magazines? You may not like or want the same things. That"s ok. Do something or give something they like. Make them feel special.
(See how many of these you can practice in one week with special people in your life and watch your relationships and intimacy grow.)
Love is Special
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
愛一個人卻得不到愛的回報是令人傷心的。更痛苦的是，愛上一個人卻沒有勇氣讓這人知道你的感受。
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
也許上帝希望我們在邂逅合適的人以前先遇到一些不合適的人。這樣當我們遇到合適的人時，我們將知道對這份禮物心懷感激了。
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
愛是當你抽離了感情，激情和浪漫后，卻發(fā)覺你依然關注著的那個人。
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never means to be and you just have to let go.
生命中的傷悲莫過于遇到了一個對你很重要的人，卻最終發(fā)現錯與無緣，終究不得不放棄。
When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.
當幸福的一扇門關閉時，另一扇門便會敞開，因為我們通常都凝視著那扇緊閉的門太久了，卻沒注意到另一扇門已經為我們敞開。
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word,and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.
最好的朋友即時只是同你一起坐在門廊前默默地打秋千，然后離開，也會讓你感覺到那是你有過的最好交談。
It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.
事實上直到失去的時候我們才知道自己曾擁有過什么;但另一個事實是，只有等到出現使我們才知道自己所盼望的是什么。
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love you back! Don"t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn"t, be content it grew in yours.
將你全部的愛都給與一個人，并不能保證別人會回報以愛!不要期待愛的回報;僅僅等待愛在你們的心中成長。如果事與愿違，你也應該為你心中有愛而滿足。
There are things you’d love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from, but don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.
也許你喜歡的人沒有從你說出那些你愛聽的話，但是對你的肺腑之言你卻不要充耳不聞。
Never say good-bye if you still want to try.
Never give up if you still feel you can go on.
Never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go.
如果還想努力，你就別說再見。
如果仍想繼續(xù)，你就別輕易放棄。
如果不能放棄，你就別說再也不愛他。
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
迷上一個人只需一分鐘，喜歡上一個人需要一小時，愛上一個人需要一天，但是忘記一個人卻需要一輩子。
Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don"t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
不要追求外表，它們具有欺騙性;不要追求財富，它最終也會消亡。尋找使你歡笑的那個人吧，因為僅僅一個微笑就會使黑暗變得光明。
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you wants to do.
夢著你的夢想，去你想去的地方，做你想做的人吧，因為你只有一生和一個機會去做所有你想做的事情。
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough hope to make you happy.
你可能已經擁有了足夠多的興奮讓你感到甜蜜，有足夠多的磨難讓你磨練得更堅強，有足夠多的悲哀讓你更富有同情心，有足夠的希望讓你更想快樂。
Always put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.
經常設身處地為他人著想。己所不欲，勿施于人。
A careless world may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.
無心之語可能導致不和;無情的話可能毀掉一生;及時的良言可以緩解緊張;愛的心聲可以寬慰心靈。
The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twists them with our own image-otherwise; we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
愛之初，讓我們所愛的人保持他們的本色，不要把他們扭曲成我們自己的模樣，否則我們所愛的僅僅是我們在他們身上的影子。
The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
最快樂的人不必事事盡善盡美，他們只會讓大部分事情順其自然。
When you were born, you were crying and everything around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
當你呱呱落地時，你大聲地哭泣，你周圍的每個人都朝你微笑。而當你走完余生時，你是唯一微笑的人，你周圍的人卻要為你落淚。
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t get on well in life unless you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
錦繡前程建立在對過去的寬懷之上，如果往昔的事物與煩惱總也不能釋懷，生活就難以順心如意
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